Dear Mr. Social,

How can I get more people interested in me?

-Tuan


Dear Tuan,

There is a scene in the movie called School for Scoundrels where the life coach asks the students “Who in here owns a self help book?” The whole class raises their hands. The life coach then replies “You all own a self help book because yourselves suck!”

In order to get someone interested, you have to be interesting. Would you say you are an interesting person? What is there to you that will make someone want to get to know you? What is it about you that makes you different from everyone else? If you can’t come up with some good answers then you have some work to do.

Play sports, get involved in social activities, have many hobbies, travel, learn to dance, cook, give massages, pickup a musical instrument, put together events and parties. All those things will make you a more interesting person. When you are interesting, there will be more people interested. After you have people who are interested, then you can flip the switch and show that you are interested by finding out what makes them interesting. And voila!

The key to generating interest is to not only be yourself, but to be your best self! Continue to grow, improve yourself and become more interesting and you will have a lot more people interested. For more information and articles about dating and relationships, check out http://www.mr-social.com/. Also, don’t forget to email me if you have any more questions about dating and relationships to mr.socialhimself@mr-social.com

~Mr. Social